Friday, October 07, 2005

...Main Hoon Na...

In my last post I talked about Kal Ho Na Hon..

…Main Hoon Na…. is another such nice song that I like…

…again, such songs bring out sense of support that you wish to lend to your family…or to others who look to you for yours …
..to start with your family, your kids look for your support in the form of approvals…it is not suggested here that you give support for all their activities…and for that matter, at least in the Indian context, they will not seek or look for your support at the activities that they feel will be reprimanded by you…they are looking for your support where they feel uneasiness, may be due to severe competition, nervousness again due to any reason, loneliness, weakness or other difficulties….

…it is important that you feel that they need you and therefore, learn to accept them and be with them…

…we all know that your child has to travel path of life journey on his own…but human child need support of their elders, particularly parents, for varying periods, depending on the need…and the constant need of theirs for support…particularly for psychological support, cannot be overlooked or ignored…

…after all culture is nothing but learned traits transmitted from one generation to the other and therefore it is a cumulative sum of traits…and … won’t you like to pass on the traits which are based on love, passion and compassion?...we can definitely …

…and when I hear this song, beautifully sung by Sonu Nigam, I get a renewed vigor in me to be nice with everyone in my family…and also work hard for them…

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